![]() ![]() I sort of have that when i am friends with someone but it's sort of a mushy kind of friendship, or when i'm unusually fascinated by someone i've just met, sort of a "i have really got to get to know and be close to this person." but it's just a desire for a deeper friendship, not a relationship. I just want to spend some time with him, talking and laughing. I don't care if he ends up with a girlfriend, or a boyfriend, because I don't want to be exclusive with him, I don't want to date or have sex with him. He's very sexual, so I know a relationship would never work out. There's one guy that I have a squish on right now. I may desire romance for a brief period of time, but then I'll be over it and I'll be glad that desire passed. I just have a desire to talk to the person and be friends with them. It was getting frustrating having to say "I got crushes on people, but they weren't really crushes because blah blah, and so blah blah blah." So I finally decided to just pick a word, and I'm calling them SQUISHES. I've been trying for a looong, loooong time how to describe the "crushes" I get on people. Others have described it beautifully, so I will copy: ![]() I added "squish" to the Urban dictionary: go vote it up so it can rise in the rankings! New word to add to the vocabulary of asexual experience: squish! I get squishes! ![]()
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